She knew God… but wanted so more, she desperately but secretly desired to look like every other girl. She was born again, an active leader in her fellowship. But deep down, she had a different desire—she just wanted a man who looked good, had money, and matched her standard. She believed she deserved more than what was around her but failed to understand her need of a spiritual guidance. Suddenly after graduation, those “more” options came for her!
What you desire will always be tested by what appears.
The Choice That Changed Everything
In the middle of attention and options, she chose quickly. No waiting. No guidance. No covering. Deep inside, something felt off. A quiet warning. He wasn’t aligned spiritually. But she silenced it. “He cares. He has money. That’s enough.” But it wasn’t!
Reality Set In. A few years into marriage, everything became clear. She began to long for God again—for conferences, retreats, spiritual fire. But she was now tied to a man who didn’t share that hunger. She became a shadow of who she used to be.
The Lesson You Must Not Ignore
Do not judge tomorrow by what you see today. That “unfinished” man may still be in God’s process. What looks small now may become great with time. Be patient. Because “A rushed decision can cost you a prepared future.” and gong by the moment, you may choose what seems right to you, but what every woman must know is that Not Every Good Man Is God’s Man! He may be kind. He may be caring. He may have money. But if he does not share your faith and vision, the future will be a struggle. Marriage is not just about love—it is about alignment.
The Power of Patience
The man you see today may not be complete yet. Growth takes time. Process matters. God is not only preparing your future partner—He is also preparing you.
“God doesn’t just give you a person; He prepares both of you for each other.”
Seek Guidance
One major mistake she made—she had no mentor. No spiritual covering. No one to guide her decisions. When you walk alone, you are more likely to choose wrongly. Wisdom requires counsel.
Choose Right, Not Fast
Do not rush into decisions that will shape your entire life. Wait. Pray. Seek counsel. Pay attention to the warnings in your spirit. Because the right choice will not only give you love—it will preserve your purpose.